Life Together Resources [by Peter Churness] Articles and Bible Studies from Life Together. en-us Resurrection Lutheran Supporting Mission to Peru Wed, 12 Oct 16 00:00:00 -0600 Wooster Ohio house church, Resurrection Lutheran, supported a team from One Hope Church this last summer (2016) and their mission to Peru.  With the low overhead of doing house church, Resurrection has been able to give away many thousands of dollars over the years in support of both local and global missions.  

Ephesians - 6:10-18 Mon, 21 Nov 11 00:00:00 -0700
Discussion Questions
  1. What do you usually do when you have a really bad day? How do you cope?
  2. What are the "schemes of the devil"? What are some of his strategies?
  3. Discuss what you think the various parts of the armor are for. How do you put each on?
    • Belt of Truth
    • Breastplate of Righteousness
    • Gospel Shoes of Peace
    • Shield of Faith
    • Helmet of Salvation
    • Sword of the Spirit - the Word of God
    • Prayer
  4. Which piece of the armor are you most in the need of right now?
  5. It wasn't discussed in the video, but verse 18 reveals how important prayer is in spiritual warfare. Read verse 18 and note how many times the word "all" appears. Discuss this verse with your group.
Ephesians - 5:21-33 Sun, 11 Sep 11 00:00:00 -0600 Discussion Questions:
  1. What does it mean to submit or be subject to someone?
  2. What does the fact that Jesus submitted to God the Father say about the person who is doing the submitting?  (i.e. Jesus is equal with God and yet he submitted to the Father)
  3. Husbands are called to love their wives like Christ loved the church.  How did Christ love the church?  What does this tell us about the role of the husband toward his wife?
  4. In your own words, how would you express the goal of Christian marriage? (see v. 31)
  5. What do you think about the statement made about men more needing respect and women more needing to be loved?  Do you agree or disagree?  Why?
  6. What counter-cultural principles from Paul can you work on to help you be a better spouse (or potential spouse)?
  7. Bonus Question:  When you play “Rock, Paper, Scissors” which do you most often pick and why?

Ephesians - 4:17-24 Thu, 11 Aug 11 00:00:00 -0600 Discussion Questions:
  1. Where have you seen real change in your life since becoming a Christian?  How is your "walk" different now?
  2. What is one "old life" piece of clothing that you have that you are having a hard time "putting off"?
  3. What is the difference between asking yourself the question "what would Jesus do?" and asking Jesus "what do you want to do in and through me?"  How is the focus different? 
  4. Paul says we're to "put on" the new self.  What is the new self? 
  5. What is Jesus saying to you right now?
Ephesians - 4:1-6 Mon, 11 Jul 11 00:00:00 -0600 Discussion Questions:
  1. Read the text again as a group – Eph 4:1-6
  2. Reading between the lines, what problems do you think Paul was concerned about in Ephesus?
  3. What qualities ought to characterize “a life worthy of the calling”?
  4. What happens when believers live out these qualities?  
  5. How does each of the four qualities listed in verse 2 promote unity?
  6. Which of these four qualities do you need most in your life personally?  What relationships will profit from developing that quality now?
  7. How does viewing God as Father (not just as Creator or Judge) add to our unity?
  8. Anything else you think the Lord may be saying to you or to our group through this text?
(Note:  Most of the questions for this week was taken from the Serendipity Bible.  Copyright (C) 1988 by Serendipity House, Littleton, Colorado 80160)
Ephesians - 2:1-10 Wed, 25 May 11 00:00:00 -0600 Discussion Questions:
  1. What was one of the best gifts you received as a child?  What made it so special for you?
  2. What does it mean to be "dead in sin"?  What caused this?
  3. What is the relationship between "wrath" and "love" (vv. 3-4)
  4. What is the relationship between "grace" and "works" (vv. 8-10)
  5. Spiritually, do you feel more dead or alive now?  Why?
  6. What has God prepared for you to be and to do?
Ephesians - 1:19-23 Wed, 18 May 11 00:00:00 -0600 Discussion Questions:
  1. Read 1 Cor 12:4-31.  What impresses you most about this passage? 
  2. Paul lists a number of "spiritual gifts" that different Christians have (though his list is not exhaustive).  What spiritual gifts do you think you have?
  3. What gifts do you recognize in others in your group?
  4. How can your group function more as one body?  How should we be viewing one another?
  5. What is God saying to you right now?
Ephesians - 1:15-19 Thu, 12 May 11 00:00:00 -0600 Discussion Questions:
  1. Do you ever struggle with discouragement or disappointment or depression?  What helps you come out of it?
  2. How could reflecting on the hope we have in Jesus both now and in the next life in heaven help?
  3. What do you need God's power for right now?
  4. How do we tap into God's power and use it? (Note to leader:  lots of potential answers here but guide the discussion onto the power of prayer)
  5. Spend time praying for one another.  Pray specifically for real needs - spiritual, financial, emotional, physical, etc.  Pray with confidence for one another knowing now that God's power is completely available to you.
Ephesians - 1:3-14 Wed, 04 May 11 00:00:00 -0600 Discussion Questions
  1. Read the entire passage, Eph 1:3-14, but before you do, tell the group that when done you'll be asking the following question: 
    • What activities and descriptive words relate to the Father, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit?
      (now read the passage and then go through each person of the Trinity below asking for descriptions of each - what each has done and how each are described)
      • Father
      • Son
      • Holy Spirit
  2. In your own words, describe the "blessings in Christ" (vv. 3-9)
  3. What excites you most about God's relationship to you?
  4. Knowing you are chosen and adopted, how will you view yourself and God differently?
  5. What changes in your lifestyle would help you live more effectively for the praise of God's glory this week?
  6. What is God saying to you right now?
Ephesians - Introduction Mon, 25 Apr 11 00:00:00 -0600 Discussion Questions:
  1. Read Acts 19:11-20. 
    • Why do you think it was necessary for the new Christians in Ephesus to burn their magic books publicly "in the sight of everyone"?
  2. Read Acts 19:23-41.
    • Read verse 30 again. Why wouldn't the disciples let Paul speak to the crowd like he wanted to? What would have happened to Paul?
    • Paul sounds pretty brave, almost superhuman, like nothing phases him? Does that intimate you at all? Do you think you could ever be like Paul?
  3. Now Read 2 Corinthians 1:8-11 to find out how Paul actually felt the day he wanted to go in and speak to that angry mob.
    • Does Paul sound more human to you now?
    • Have you ever felt like Paul?  Have you ever despaired of life or felt the sentence of death like Paul did that day?
    • Read verses 9 and 10 again.  What did Paul learn through that experience?  Have you learned this same lesson Paul did, or is this something you still need to discover?
  4. What do you hope to get out of our study of Ephesians?
Spiritual Practices: Solitude Mon, 04 Apr 11 00:00:00 -0600
  1. Do you like to be alone or is solitude hard for you?  Why?
  2. Read 1 Kings 19:11-13a.  How did the Lord speak to Elijah?
  3. If one of the ways God speaks to us is in a gentle whisper, what would you do if you were Satan and wanted to prevent God's people from hearing His voice?
  4. If having a consistent "quiet time" with the Lord has been a practice of yours, share with the group what has worked for you and what hasn't.  (Note to Leader:  if you have new Christians in your group, explain what the term "quiet time" means and make note of other phrases used (i.e. like "morning devotions", etc)).
  5. If you have never had a consistent quiet time or if you've fallen out of this practice, discuss some practical steps you will take this week to remedy this.  Share with each other ideas. 
Spiritual Practices: Simplicity Mon, 28 Mar 11 00:00:00 -0600
  • In what ways do you think you need to simplify your life
  • How does the practice of simplicity affect how we spend our money?
  • In the story of Mary and Martha, Martha was busy serving Jesus, but Jesus implies that this "serving Jesus" was actually distracting Martha from what was most important.  Can you relate?  How can doing good things for Jesus be a distraction.
  • Picture Jesus as your King sitting down on the throne of your life.  What does He say to you as he seeks to bring order to the "kingdom of your life"?  What is Jesus saying to you right now?
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    Teach Us To Pray - Deliver Us From Evil Mon, 07 Mar 11 00:00:00 -0700
  • Scripture speaks of three enemies for the Christian: the world, the flesh and the devil. Which of these three “enemies” we have are you most concerned about and why? 
  • Read through Ephesians 6:10-17 and discuss what you think each of the pieces of the Armor of God means. What would you actually put each of these on?
    • Belt of truth
    • Breastplate of righteousness
    • Shoes of the gospel of peace
    • Shield of faith
    • Helmet of salvation
    • Sword of the Spirit
  • Read Galatians 5:16-17. How do you “walk by the Spirit”? What does that look like?
  • Read Romans 12:1. How do you “renew your mind”?
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    Teach Us To Pray - Give Us This Day Our Daily Bread Mon, 14 Feb 11 00:00:00 -0700 Discussion Questions
    1.  What are some of the things you worry about?
    2.  What are some signs that you are worrying too much?
    3.  If God knows what we need before we ask, why pray?
    4.  Do you struggle with trusting God with your needs?
    5.  Jesus says we should pray for our daily needs and that we should not worry about tomorrow.  Does that mean we should never plan for the future or save money for the future?Why or why not?
    6.  Paul says in Philippians that he had learned “the secret of being content in all circumstances”.  What’s the secret?
    7.  When have you felt the Lord carry you through a difficult time in your life?
    Teach Us To Pray - Hallowed Be Thy Name Mon, 24 Jan 11 00:00:00 -0700 Teach Us To Pray – Hallowed Be Thy Name: Discussion Questions
    1. Have you ever experienced a time when you felt overwhelmed (in a good way) by the holiness of God.
    2. How might seeing God in His holiness and power and greatness impact your prayer life in a positive way.
    3. Explain in your own words the difference between being afraid of God and fearing God.
    4. Do you think there might be a connection between “fearing God” and “having faith in God”? If so, explain.
    5. What kinds of prayers are “hallowed be Thy name” prayers? List specific examples of what those kinds of prayers might look like.
    6. What are we really asking for when we pray that God’s name would be honored as holy? How might God answer that prayer?
    The Great Rescue Tue, 10 Aug 10 00:00:00 -0600 On April 14, 1912, shortly before midnight, the RMS Titanic struck an iceberg, sinking early on April 15, two hours and forty minutes later.  The sinking resulted in the deaths of 1,517 of the 2,223 people on board.  It was a tragedy of epic proportions.  And yet the tragedy is only made worse by the knowledge that many of these deaths could have been averted.  Many of the lifeboats launched from the Titanic were less than half full.  One lifeboat meant to hold 40 people had only 12 on board.  Another meant to hold 65 had 28.

    This tragedy reminds me of a story Jesus once told.  In Luke 14:16-24 the Master tells of a feast held by a man.  But many of this man’s invited guests did not come to his dinner.  His tables were half full.  Even after bringing in the poor, crippled, blind and lame, still there was more room.  So the man commanded his servants to go out and compel anyone they could find to come in.  Elsewhere Jesus speaks of his primary mission – to seek and save the lost.  2000 years ago Jesus launched the greatest rescue mission in history.  The world is sinking.  By the death and resurrection of Jesus a secure means of rescue has been established.  The Great Rescuer has launched his church which is to go out amidst the wreckage and pull people from the freezing waters and into the safety of His church.  Every church is like a lifeboat engaging in the mission of Jesus to seek and to save men and women drowning in their sin.  And yet the tragedy of the human race is only made worse by the knowledge that many of our churches are anchored half full a safe distance from the wreckage.

    A little over three years ago the LEM began the construction of some new lifeboats called Life Together Churches.  This last fall we launched our first Life Together Church and shortly thereafter saw three completely unchurched families come to faith in Christ.  One woman in our new church after the first couple of months told me, “I’ve learned more about God in the last two months than in the whole rest of my life combined.”  Another had tears in her eyes the first week she was with us as she experienced the presence of Jesus.  It’s been a joy to share the gospel with these families each week and to see them come to a living faith.  When we started, some of these folks had never prayed out loud before, had never sung songs together in a group, didn’t know the difference between the Old and New Testaments, didn’t know what the chapters and verse numbers meant.  But they were hungry from God.  They knew they were drowning and God pulled them from the freezing water and into Himself.  This has been a work that God has done and our family has been privileged to witness it. 

    These families are not unique.  The number of unchurched in our nation has grown to a staggering number.  Millions are drowning in the freezing waters of their sin and separation from God.  But many of these folks are not hardened against the Lord.  They will respond positively to the gospel in the context of a loving Christian community.  However, many of them have a negative impression of the institutional church and would not step foot into an established congregation for various reasons.  For these folks the church must instead come to them.  And that’s what Life Together Churches are.  Its churches being launched right in the neighborhoods where people live and work and play. 

    Life Together Churches come in three forms:  simple church, cell church and house church.  Simple church is church at its most basic level.  It may be a gathering in a coffee shop, on the beach, or in a home.  It is, by definition, simple.  It focuses on people, rather than programs and structure.  Cell church can be seen as multiple simple churches linked together to form a hierarchy of support and accountability.  Usually a pastor oversees the cell groups and leads a monthly large group gathering.  A house church is more autonomous than a cell church though it is often networked organically with other nearby house churches for occasional large group gatherings and other shared ministries. 

    These Life Together Churches can be rapidly started and supported without trained pastoral leadership because of a well-designed set of offerings that provide all the required resources and services. The offerings leverage Internet technologies to create a network of churches that work together in mutual support.  To aid in moving this forward, the LEM has entered into a strategic partnership with the Word Alone Network (now called Word Alone Ministries) and we are launching Life Together Churches together as a joint venture.  Word Alone has contact with many emerging small worshipping communities lacking pastoral leadership due to recent events within the larger church.  Life Together Churches is helping some of these groups to formalize into missional congregations networked with other house churches and cell churches in our Life Together network.  Life Together Churches is not another new denomination, but rather is a network and resource for emerging cell churches and house churches.  As we launch and/or service these new churches we aid them in linking up with appropriate denominational affiliations in step with the membership base and leadership of each emerging simple church.

    To help launch a new Life Together Church we first offer a startup workshopThis is a face-to-face, day long workshop to help local leaders and participants get their Life Together Church started quickly and effectively.  We then offer them ongoing pastoral care and leadership coaching through weekly interactive video sessions to support their learning and development.  A basic worship plan is designed and published each week to support worship in small group worship settings.  This plan can be adjusted or replaced as needed by local Life Together Church leaders at their discretion.  The Life Together network provides website, social networking facilities, and a monthly email newsletter to help local groups gain a sense of the greater community of Life Together Churches.  We’re also developing adult educational materials as well as a new innovative confirmation program called DSTNY to aid in the discipleship of young and old.  Periodic retreats and an annual conference will round out our program offerings to support this new paradigm of church planting.

    We’ve run into many folks who are excited and intrigued by this new model of ministry and who would like to explore this unique way of doing church.  To aid such groups in evaluating whether this model is for them we’ve developed a program called Starting Our Life Together.  This is a series of worship plans and group activities designed to take a new congregation through its first 120 days.  The content focuses on rediscovering the nature of church life in the New Testament.  This timeframe is often used as a trial period for the group, ending in an evaluation about whether to continue.

    If you would like more information about how you can start a Life Together Church in your area (or join an existing one), please contact us!

    The Friendship and the Fear Wed, 21 Apr 10 00:00:00 -0600 Recording artist Matt Redman's 1997 album was entitled The Friendship and the Fear. The phrase is a profound one and contains within it one of the keys to living the Christian life.

    The concept of friendship with God is central to us as believers. In 1 John 3:1 we read, “How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God!” Jesus said to his disciples, “I have called you friends, for everything I learned from my Father I have made known to you” (John 15:15). And Paul prays, “…that love may be the ground into which you sink your roots and on which you have your foundation” (Eph. 3:17). Growing in our knowledge of God’s passionate love for us is foundational to the Christian life.

    But what about the fear of the Lord? Paul writes in Phil. 2:12 that we are to “…work out our salvation with fear and trembling.” And Peter writes, “If you address as Father the One who impartially judges according to each one's work, conduct yourselves in fear during the time of your stay on earth” (1 Peter 1:17). The fear of the Lord is not just an Old Testament concept—it’s a New Testament one, too. And it was a mark of the early church which “…grew in numbers, living in the fear of the Lord” (Acts 9:31).

    Both the love of God and the fear of the Lord must be embraced by the Christian. I’ve found that the more I’m immersed in a deep sense of God’s love for me, the more I’m inclined toward obedience. And the more I walk in obedience and fear, the greater my joy. Jesus articulates this truth in John 15:9-11: “As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. If you obey my commands, you will remain in my love… I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.”

    Holding the friendship and the fear in a healthy balance and allowing them to work together is key to joyful Christian living.

    Worship Video 001 Sun, 03 Jan 10 00:00:00 -0700 Worship Video:  Peter Churness


    • Come Thou Almighty King
    • Here I Am to Worship
    • Amazing Love
    • I Love You Lord